I came back to India in March this year after spending two
years on deputation in Germany. As I had to go to office daily, I had to admit
my son to a daycare there. He spent around 20 months there. Initially it was
difficult for him as he didn’t know the language and the people who took care
of him. He cried daily for 3 months till he got adjusted there and then there
was no looking back. He enjoyed the stay there, loved the food which was given
there and he got very close to his care-takers. He also learnt to speak German
fluently and with a great accent. He learnt to eat on his own, do things on his
own. He participated in all the group events and was never ready to come back
home when I went to pick him in the daycare.
This is my world of penning down thoughts which keep fleeting in my mind. I realized that writing a few lines about topics that touch me or move me give me so much joy and help me release my frustration and stress if any. I have tried to address issues which are near to my heart. You all are welcome to share your thoughts on the topics and also suggest new topics to me for writing, which may be close to your heart!
15 December 2015
14 December 2015
Blog Marathon Post 10 - The dialogue
A: I am so happy today. It is as good as my last working day
in office today. I will working from home from now on.
A’s mom: You are behaving like a small kid who doesn’t want
to go to school every day.
A: Yes, am feeling exactly that way. No tension of getting
up at 5:45 am every day, going to office in the maddening traffic by either
driving or hiring a cab. No more tension of clocking in 9.25 hrs. in the office
and no tension of coming back in time to spend time with my kiddo.
13 December 2015
Blog Marathon Post 9 - A creative weekend
Shreya, my sister who just joined my company and shifted to Bangalore is a
Libran as well. She is actually a cusp, but Libra rules her behavior and
thoughts to a very large extent. We both love music, movies, reading, writing.
So when two Librans meet over the weekend, you all can imagine, how creative
the weekend would have got.
12 December 2015
Blog Marathon Post 8 - Blank!
I have no topic or theme to write for today's blog marathon. It is a Saturday evening, feeling very relaxed and rejuvenated. No work on my mind, no stress of driving to office early in the morning. No thoughts on getting back home tired and sleep deprived. No tension of getting up early in the morning for office tomorrow. I tried to think about this and that, here and there, but couldn't find one single interesting thread to write on. Was it because I was happy that I didn't have anything to write about?
11 December 2015
Blog Marathon Post 7 - Being human!??
I am not sure about you, but I was extremely upset on
getting the news that Salman Khan, the famous Bollywood actor was acquitted of
all charges and that he is scot free after a person died as his car rammed into
the footpath. The charges couldn’t be proved it seems. Whether Salman was
driving or his driver or a ghost is not clear. He did not wait to see what
happened to that person or take him to the hospital. He just fled from the
scene. The police tried to do their best to gather evidences and prove him
guilty, but the case turned in such a way that it left everybody surprised and
the faith in judiciary was shaken once again and it was proved that it is a sin
to be a commoner in India.
10 December 2015
Blog Marathon Post 6 - The addiction
Merriam Webster dictionary defines it as
: a strong and harmful
need to regularly have something (such as a drug) or do something (such as
gamble)
: an unusually great
interest in something or a need to do or have something
Read on to know about one such addiction in my life.
09 December 2015
Blog Marathon Post 5 - Walk walk walk
Nearly 9 months back, I realized that my sedentary life is doing me no good
and that I must bring a change in my lifestyle. I enrolled for Zumba classes
for a month, but the speed of the training left me gasping for breath. I had no
stamina and no energy left at the end of the session. Besides it got too late
to get home and my enthusiasm just vanished in thin air. I got to know about a
group on Facebook about ladies who worked out together in monthly challenges
from the confines on their home and motivated each other and kept track of each others progress. I got introduced to a whole new world of walking, that too
from within the comfort of my home and as per my convenience with zero fees and
no running behind time to reach the classes.
08 December 2015
Blog Marathon Post 4 - Tu koi aur hai
The song “Tu koi aur hai”, which also happens to be the
title of my post today is from the movie called “Tamasha”, which was released 2
weeks back. A.R. Rahman has rendered his voice for this particular song and has
also composed music for this movie. My favorite onscreen jodi was cast in this
movie and one of my favorite director, Imtiaz Ali was at the helm of it, so I had
all the reasons to see it, which I did with my sister (who is a movie buff and
watches almost all famous movies released so far) and a colleague and my mom.
07 December 2015
Blog Marathon Post 3 - What's in a cap!
As the month of December approached, I remember schools
organizing Sports Day with a lot of enthusiasm and vigor. Weather being cool and
sun being bearable, we practised for hours together in a playground and on the
day of the event, we were all charged up and competed against each other in the
garb of blue house, red house, green house and yellow house. The house with
highest number of medals won the competition and also threw their weight around
till the next sports’ day.
06 December 2015
Blog Marathon Post 2 - My tryst with music
The year 2015 brought many good things into my life.
I got back to this city and my home and family after spending two years in Germany on deputation. I got back to my people and friends whom I missed very much there. I got back into a routine with the help of my parents and the maids around. I also started working, which I really enjoy now. Music has always been my accomplice wherever I have spent time of my life. It was my saving grace in Germany too. I used to put old Hindi and Marathi songs in an otherwise dead and quiet neighbourhood and that brought me close to my motherland and my people.
I got back to this city and my home and family after spending two years in Germany on deputation. I got back to my people and friends whom I missed very much there. I got back into a routine with the help of my parents and the maids around. I also started working, which I really enjoy now. Music has always been my accomplice wherever I have spent time of my life. It was my saving grace in Germany too. I used to put old Hindi and Marathi songs in an otherwise dead and quiet neighbourhood and that brought me close to my motherland and my people.
05 December 2015
Blog Marathon Post 1 - Chennai floods
Chennai as we all know is cut off from the world due to rains caused by a low pressure belt over the Bay of Bengal. During Diwali also it had rained there a lot. My mom and her friend wanted to visit Chennai, their bookings were done, but we had to cancel due to the situation there.
20 August 2015
Being an entrepreneur
The association of my
society, Genesis, which is newly elected, is a team of highly motivated
individuals and the moment they were voted to power, they came up with an
excellent idea of celebrating Independence Day in the society. It was the first
time that I was going to be here for such celebrations on the Independence Day.
Various activities were planned for the kids. Drawing competition, painting,
fancy-dress, dance and sports was announced for the kids. And the adults were
given a chance to showcase their cooking skills.
22 July 2015
Blog Marathon Post 14 - Selfie lele re
Recently I came across a song from a Salman Khan movie which is "Selfie
le le re" and it has become a craze among the masses. With no meaning or
melody or soulful voice, this song is already topping the chart. This is not
the first time that something like this has happened. What has happened to our
taste :P
21 July 2015
Blog Marathon Post 13 - Beti - dhan ki peti
I am very happy today for 2 things.
I lost another kg today and that proved that patience and sincerity and regularity in exercising pay off really well, though slow in my case, but it surely does. So now my next immediate goal is to reduce 2 kgs further and then take my parents and T to Cafe Coffee Day to have my favorite Cafe Frappe and brownie with hot chocolate sauce. I have promised myself to let myself indulge in something I really like on that particular day. That will be a self-gift and it will lift my spirits to go on to the next schedule of the weight loss journey. It will definitely boost my morale.
I lost another kg today and that proved that patience and sincerity and regularity in exercising pay off really well, though slow in my case, but it surely does. So now my next immediate goal is to reduce 2 kgs further and then take my parents and T to Cafe Coffee Day to have my favorite Cafe Frappe and brownie with hot chocolate sauce. I have promised myself to let myself indulge in something I really like on that particular day. That will be a self-gift and it will lift my spirits to go on to the next schedule of the weight loss journey. It will definitely boost my morale.
Blog Marathon Post 12 - Monsoon woes
Monsoon usually starts in the month of June and continues till September, sometimes till October. This year Bangalore did not experience any heavy monsoon rains in June and it was pleasant and cool otherwise. Black clouds could be seen in the skies, but they somehow evaded the pouring down. Now suddenly since a day or two, the rain gods have been happy and they are blessing the whole country with showers.
18 July 2015
Blog Marathon Post 11 - Raining offers
I take today's newspaper in my hands to go through what is happening in the world and predominantly I see advertisements of grocery shops, apparel brands, electronic brands and also shops selling weight loss and hair growth. I am amazed to see the highlights of the world affairs sidelined by these offers. 50 % sale is the catch-line and consumers like me fall for it easily.
Blog Marathon Post 10 - Greensole
I had written about 2 young men and their novel ideas in one of my earlier post. These young lads are trying to solve the problem in their own way. They are doing their bit for the environment and the needy people. They do not have lot of wealth or a rich dad, but the yearning to do something which will help the people around helps them move ahead. I am talking here about the company called Greensole who collects discarded shoes, recycles them and gives them to the needy people on streets who cannot afford to wear footwear.
16 July 2015
Blog Marathon Post 9 - Wanderlust
My writing buddy John is off to Turkey next week, all alone for a trip. And
I am very excited about it. He usually sets off alone like this to unknown
places with no agenda and I am sure he has a blast with it. When I talked to
him the other day about it, he said, he does not get company of like-minded
people and so he sets off alone. That requires a lot of guts I must say. Going
to an unknown country and not knowing the language of that country and
exploring that country requires a lot of mental preparation and confidence to
move around with ease. English may not be easily spoken in that country, so he
may have to even rely on sign languages. What fun!!
15 July 2015
Blog Marathon Post 8 - Food for thought
My friend Mrunal introduced me to a very nice blog called Indian Makeup and Beauty Blog where one can
read any information related to make-up and beauty, health, fitness, weight
loss, reviews on new shampoos, lipsticks, creams and what not.
You can check it here if you feel like:
http://makeupandbeauty.com/
You can check it here if you feel like:
http://makeupandbeauty.com/
14 July 2015
Blog Marathon Post 7 - The yearly get-together
Last year my school mates from the 1995 batch of Kidland English School, Dombivli met up after almost 20 years and we had a grand re-union in Mumbai in December. Thanks to Whtsapp and Facebook, we met the friends, with whom we spent the amazing years of school. It felt good to meet the buddies, who had changed a lot in appearance, but at heart, we all were the same.
13 July 2015
Blog Marathon Post 6 - A fresh week a fresh start
As I already narrated, Sunday did not end on a good note. I was tired and lazy and lethargic and I slept quite late as T was not yet tired or ready to sleep. He was talking to his toys, Tom and Doraemon and narrating something to them. I tried to tell me to wind up now, but he does all the things now which I don't want him to. This is the age of stubbornness and haughtiness. He just completed 3rd year. So now he is experimenting with my patience and throws tantrums and does not listen to anything we say on first go.
12 July 2015
Blog Marathon Post 5 - Lazy Sunday
Last night, I and Tanay had a small accident. We were playing as usual and without realizing the distance between my face and his head, he jumped down from the sofa and I was caught unawares and his head hit my chin hard and my teeth hit the lips hard. The lip got cut and started bleeding. My body was into shock and I realized that something has happened only after 5 minutes. I started crying like a small child as it was paining really bad.
11 July 2015
Blog Marathon Post 4 - Zindagi kaisi hai paheli
Yesterday I was working as usual at home and my maid and the cook were doing their work side by side. Being a Friday, I was relaxed and was already looking forward to Saturday evening as I had invited some of my colleagues for tea and snacks. My cook had promised to make the snacks which would help her kick-start her side-business of snacks preparation over the weekends. So, I was not in tension of preparing anything myself and spending the most time in kitchen.
10 July 2015
Blog Marathon Post 3 - No gain without pain
I came back
to India with lots of ideas and a list of to do things. I was not sure if I
could even start one of those things. But with the strong support of my
parents, especially my dad, I am extremely dedicated and focused on my health
now. Not that I did not get the opportunity earlier, but it said that the right
time has to come to do or start with something. And this was my time.
09 July 2015
Blog Marathon Post 2 - Heat wave in Europe
Yesterday my
dad read out an article to me from the Times of India where it was stated that
Sunday, the 5th of July was the hottest day in Europe since 1981 with
temperature touching 40 degrees Celsius. I wringed in pain at the very thought
of it.
08 July 2015
Blog Marathon Post 1 - Back to basics
I do not remember when my last post on the blog was. The past three months have left me gasping for some little time for myself, but I am unable to get it. Then I thought to myself, why can't I take out 10 minutes and write?
14 April 2015
What an idea sir ji!
24 hours do not seem to be enough for me, since the time I have returned to India. No time to read, write, surf or do
any activity for myself. I sometimes log in to FB, but I feel lost and
disconnected with the outside world as I am not regularly there. There are some
interesting things which one gets to know on FB and that broadens your horizon
and your view towards the society and self. Recently, I came across two such
interesting things, rather ideas, which brought a smile on my face and the
trust in humanity was reinforced.
15 January 2015
Alles Gute, Shreya Ma!
My kid
sister is flying to Germany in April this year. And I am totally excited about
it.
I have
known her all her life. She stays in the same building where my parents are in
Mumbai and it is just that we have a set of different parents; we treat each
other as sisters born to the same parents. She is much younger than me, but she
has got a definite vision of what she wants to do in life.
14 January 2015
Happy New Year 2015
A busy year this is!
What all do I have on my list..
Return to namma Bengaluru in March.
Start a new crèche and school for Tanay - It is going to be an interesting phase in his and my life. I am excited to see how he copes with the new language, new food system and new friends.
What all do I have on my list..
Return to namma Bengaluru in March.
Start a new crèche and school for Tanay - It is going to be an interesting phase in his and my life. I am excited to see how he copes with the new language, new food system and new friends.
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