My baby is
now 9 months old.
He is outside my
womb for 9 months and he was inside my womb for 9 months. That is 18 months,
almost a year and a half. Wow! The bonding with him started from the day I saw
a small tiny dot throbbing with full vigor in the 12-13 week scan. I had tears
in my eyes that day. From that tiny dot to a full blown baby in the next 9
months and after taking birth in my life, the journey from just lying there to
the most current activity of trying to stand up and take steps has just been
like a real life movie.
I did capture
most of his moments on the camera once he took birth. His expressions, his eyes
and the most innocent smile on this earth are the only things I can really
remember. When I close my eyes, all I can see is his toothless smile which
makes me forget every pain and sad moment. If at all I am sad and angry (which
is very rare nowadays), I just think of him and the smile returns to my face.
Children have this knack of making you smile when you least expect it. They do
not have any prejudices or fears of any kind. My baby is so happy and playful
when my maid and cook are around. He doesn’t differentiate between them and us
when it comes to showering his love and attention. For him we all are same people
and he plays with all of us with equal enthusiasm. He still doesn’t understand
the concept of light and dark and sometimes merrily goes to the room to play
with his favorite thing, even if the lights in that room are switched off. I
will be very glad if this trend continues in future too. As a part of growing
up, he now no longer wants to stay alone in a room, even if we leave him for a
second to get some things for him. He immediately follows you and cries some
sounds and stands up clinging to your dress. I fear that he may fall, which he
sometimes does, but then it is all a part and parcel of growing up, isn’t it?
He now mutters a
lot of sounds and is inquisitive about almost everything that comes in his way.
First it goes into his mouth to taste it and then on the floor where he bangs
it and sees how strong that thing is. He is not fussy about food, eats almost
everything which we give him at home, but he has a liking towards sweet.
Banana, apple, kheer with jaggery are his favorite. He gorges on all types of
Cerelac items. He now tries to stand holding onto something and in the pursuit
of doing many things at the same time often lands into trouble and falls down.
But then some one or the other is around and so he is not hurt. I try to read
him books and show him big objects in the book to catch his attention, but he
hardly pays attention and does only what he wants to do. He loves to have his
homeopathic medicines and almost reminds me to give them to him. He doesn’t
have any teeth yet and he loves taking bath and lingering in the bathroom and
kitchen.
I can go on and
on about him the whole time. But this is so natural to a mother, isn't it?